Author Archives: Don Follis

When Lee Grady’s “Fire in my bones” column appeared just before Valentine’s Day in Charisma Magazine it caught my attention.  Especially the title: “10 Men Christian Woman Should Never Marry.”Well, the piece went viral, with now almost 2 million views.  Holy Cow!  That never, ever happens with articles on Charisma Magazine, regardless how good orContinueContinue reading “Article still going STRONG a month later: 10 Men Christian Woman Should Never Marry (This thing has wind under it’s sail — Wow!!)”

When we read the Scriptures, there is a difference, a big difference, between reading for information versus reading for formation.  Yes, we do need both. … Using the story of King Uzziah in I Chronicles 26 as a backdrop, retired physics professor John Stanford, in about 100 words, succinctly tells us the difference in thisContinueContinue reading “The huge difference between approaching the Bible for Information versus Formation”

When I make my daily to-do list I write down my appointments, what I need to pick up at the store, what I need to do at the bank … that kind of thing.  Then I think for a minute and try to put down some of the things I most want to achieve.  ThatContinueContinue reading “A to-do list and a what I want to achieve list are very different”

The inimitable Rich Nathan … insightful, wise, clear, compelling: Joshua 1 provides at least 5 lessons for Christian leaders and church planters.Lesson 1 for leadership success:”Make sure you are called!”— Rich Nathan (@RichNathan) March 12, 2014Lesson 2 for leadership success from Joshua 1::”Find a great mentor!”— Rich Nathan (@RichNathan) March 12, 2014Lesson 3 for leadershipContinueContinue reading “One wise pastor”

I just finished reading Ann Arbor Vineyard pastor Ken Wilson’s book: A letter to my Congregation — an evangelical pastor’s path to embracing people who are gay, lesbian and transgender into the company of Jesus.It is very thoughtful… Wilson is smart, gentle, kind, respectful and, from all indications, deeply shaped by his love of theContinueContinue reading “A Vineyard church pastor puts his stake in the sand!”

Last night at the Art Theatre in Champaign with Jennifer and hundreds in recovery from the Champaign-Urbana community, I viewed the powerful The Anonymous People, a documentary on the history and strength of the millions-strong Recovery community in the United States. The showing came as a result of the inimitable Veronica Valli, whose blog, especiallyContinueContinue reading “The Anonymous People movement is growing! May their number increase 10-fold!!”

So you are about to lead a potentially volatile meeting.  You already know there are some major disagreements.  You feel like you’re sitting on a powder keg.  Conflict resolution specialist Ken Sande proposes 5 questions you might ask each participant:  Briefly stated, how do you feel because of this problem? What have you done that mightContinueContinue reading “Diffusing potentially volatile meetings…”

This always is one of the central messages of Lent is this:   No pretending; no denial …Thus, this morning I did what I have done hundreds of times.  I followed the advice of one of my heroes in the faith John Stott.  I first read my Lenten readings from the Bible.  I reflected on them forContinueContinue reading “Lenten Readings — Holding in tension the Word of the Lord & the news of the day!”