Who is going to get your heartfelt thanks this Thanksgiving?

Somebody you know needs to hear these very words from you during this month of Thanksgiving! And you know who is that is. In my 4th-grade year the week before Thanksgiving, my dad and mom announced to all 4 kids that come January dad's company was transferring him to a new town. Dad said weContinue reading "Who is going to get your heartfelt thanks this Thanksgiving?"

Illustrating from the 10 commandments in a very personal way

The first thing I noticed about pastor Jon when we met this week in a Phoenix coffeeshop was his elaborate tattoos. The second thing I noticed is that Jon is theologically savvy, with his undergraduate degree from Gordon College and his Master of Divinity from Gordon-Conwell Theological Seminary. From the anabaptist heritage, Jon is theContinue reading "Illustrating from the 10 commandments in a very personal way"

Some things we hear or say are not gossip — really

"The words of a gossip are like choice morsels. They go down to the inmost parts." Proverbs 18:8 ----- Having had the privilege of counseling or mentoring hundreds of pastors, I know what a sacred trust I have been given. A few weeks back a pastor I’ve met with many times surprised me when heContinue reading "Some things we hear or say are not gossip — really"

Driving west through the mountains is good for the soul

Jennifer & Don at Grand Teton National Park (NW Wyoming) in late July, with the famous Teton range in the distance. ----- It happens every time I drive west in the summer, heading for the Rocky Mountains. Somewhere near the Iowa-Nebraska border, my mind shifts into neutral. It happened again 3 weeks ago. Late inContinue reading "Driving west through the mountains is good for the soul"